DEAR ABBY: We have vegetarian and vegan friends. Over the years, when we have invited them to a party, we (omnivores) always make sure to include dishes that they will enjoy. But when they invite guests over for dinner, they never – ever – include a meat dish, not even a piece of chicken.

I asked around and apparently this is everyone’s experience. Don’t you think a little reciprocity is in order? As things stand, the rule of hospitality seems decidedly one-sided. If vegans are worried about inedible leftovers, they can always provide a doggy bag for their guests. — UNIQUE IN THE WEST

DEAR SINGLE: Please consider this your wake-up call. Many vegans and vegetarians don’t want meat, chicken or fish in their kitchen. If, in addition to what they provide you, you feel the need to consume animal proteins, consume some before going to their home or after. If it doesn’t suit you, respond to their invitation with polite regrets.