How to repair your relationship after an offense? The easiest way is to apologize sincerely. A half-hearted apology is as bad as no apology.

Don’t minimize how she feels or tell her she’s too sensitive. Make sure you know why she is upset and then acknowledge her feelings. Repeat what hurt her. An example is: “I know I did this to you…and you are hurt by my actions. »

Take responsibility for your actions and admit that you were wrong. Don’t try to blame anyone or anything for what you did. For example: “I was wrong to speak and act that way.”

Let him know you feel remorse, but don’t apologize. Honestly understand how your actions hurt her. Say something like, “I regret my actions.”

Apologize sincerely for what you did and use the words “I’m sorry” not “sorry” or “sorry if” or “sorry for feeling that way.” Briefly explain your own point of view if this will provide some clarity. For example: “I am deeply sorry, I was stuck in traffic. »

It is often said that the best form of apology is to change your behavior. Don’t become a repeat offender. An apology without changing behavior is manipulation.

Finally, when you apologize, you can give her the flowers or gift you brought her to make her feel better. Also make sure you mean it and stay true to your words.